Getting Over the Fear of Making the Wrong Decision

Posted on: August 23, 2016 Category: Self Mastery

PLR-3The fear of making the wrong decision keeps so many people from achieving their goals and living the life of their dreams.

Maybe they don’t take the action because they fear it’s the wrong action to take.

Perhaps they don’t ask for what they want because they fear it might be the wrong thing to do – and they’ll suffer the consequences.

Or they wait too long to take action, and miss out on incredible opportunities.

When in the midst of this fear, it can feel choking to take any action at all.

I get it!

“It’s better to wait.”
“Fear must mean I’m not supposed to do it yet.”
“I can’t make any decision feeling like this.”

We’ve all been there!

I’m here to share 3 steps you can take today, so that you too can drop the fear around making the wrong decisions and start making powerful decisions in your business and life!


DEVELOP TRUST IN YOUR INTUITION

We all have a connection to our intuition, and while developing our intuition is important, it’s not as important as developing our TRUST in our intuition …

Developing our trust in our intuition enables us to take action on the guidance we receive, take strides in faith, and continue to move forward even when we are YET to see physical evidence.

PLACE YOUR INNER GUIDANCE FIRST

Only YOU will know the answer for you that feels most aligned. Not your coach, your colleagues, your friends, your family, or even your spouse.

Your coach can be of assistance in holding the space for you to navigate the muddy waters and seek clearer answers – that said, nobody else knows what’s feels right apart from you!

CREATE SPACE TO CONNECT

Before asking someone else what they think – first create the space to seek out your own answers and develop clarity in your decision and approach. This is so important because when we look outside ourselves for answers, we can be swayed by opinions and even feel more confused.

Take some time alone to develop your own answers before seeking out a trusted second opinion. Meditation and journaling are some great ways to create a space to connect with your own answers!

TIP: I often give myself a timeline (e.g. I will make my final decision on this by Friday this week) and go with my gut. This keeps me from procrastinating and helps me be accountable to myself!


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It’s a muscle.

Over time, as we develop this muscle, along with the faith that each decision we make is the right one for us – it gets better.

Taking action based on a feeling that something is right … Has no doubt led you to some incredible and wonderful experiences in your life!

It’s led me to manifesting my dream relationship with my man, creating a business and life that I love, exciting travel opportunities, and so much more.

What decision are you procrastinating on right now?

How can you make movement on this decision today?

To making powerful & aligned decisions,
jia-ni

PS: Getting over the fear of making the wrong decision making doesn’t just help you manifest more powerful results in your life … it also frees up so much mental bandwidth and helps us feel more peaceful and joyful! Try it today!

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Creating A Life You Don’t Need A ‘Break’ From

Posted on: August 9, 2016 Category: Business & Entrepreneurship/ Self Mastery

Creating A Life You Don't Need A 'Break' From

We’ve been away on our annual winter getaway and it has been really FUN.

It’s also inspired me to reconnect deeply with a goal I had set in 2013.

“To create a life that feels like a vacation – all year round”.

Juicy, right?

Is this something that sounds really exciting to you too? ;)


Let’s start here: What about vacations do you absolutely love?

How can you (re)structure your life – so that it feels like a vacation all year round?


When I did this exercise many years back, I noted the following:

+ I love having the space to receive inspired ideas while I’m on vacation. Being on vacation meant no rigid structure. It meant being totally open to flow with Spirit, something that my regular days felt lacking of.

+ I love the sunshine, the warmth, the sun-kissed skin that vacations promise! I love feeling excited every morning as I leap out of bed – feeling so excited to be alive.

+ I love treating myself with shopping, good food, and spa treatments. I love staying in luxury hotels where everything is so considered and the service makes you feel so taken care of all the time!


Creating A Life You Don't Need A 'Break' From What has happened since then:

+ I’ve created a business that allows me to have Mondays and Friday evenings with no rigid structure, allowing myself to be moved by inspiration, guided by intuition – and many of my best ideas come from these days!

+ For the last 3 years, I’ve always travelled during the coldest months of Australian winter to somewhere warm, tropical, and sunny. My quest to chase the sunshine continues!

+ I’ve created a life and career that has me jumping out of bed every morning, excited to work with my clients, create content for my blog, develop exciting projects, and so much more.

+ Good food, self-care treatments, and shopping are no longer my “only on vacation” treats! Honestly, I used to go on a bit of a binge on massages while away because I really needed it. It was a big deal at the time to treat myself to massages (and it was a rare occasion justified only when physical impairment occurred)! Today, I no longer feel the need to binge because my body continues to be regularly tended to – whether on vacation or not.


Can you see the trend here? ;)

When we start identifying the areas we desire change in, with the intention to transform them – opportunities arise for us to make new choices. When we have the courage to make these new choices, we are able to step into a new level of being & living.

It is truly all a choice – whether we live day to day awaiting our next ‘getaway’, or live every day feeling like we are living our dream vacation!

What are you choosing?

Much love,
jia-ni

PS: Interested in exploring how life and business coaching can SUPPORT you in creating the structure for you to live a life that feels like a vacation, launch a new business, or up-level your existing business so that you no longer feel like you need a ‘break’ from it? Schedule in a complimentary discovery call with me to find out if working together is a good fit – and if coaching is the right next step for you!

On this call we’ll explore your big goals, where you’re currently at, and how coaching together would potentially look like. I’m committed to only taking on clients whose vision and work I believe in, and who I know I can help in achieving their goals. Book in a call with me to find out more!

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On Invisible Ceilings & Self-Sabotage

Posted on: July 21, 2016 Category: Business & Entrepreneurship/ For Coaches/ Self Mastery

Have you felt like you’re not receiving at the capacity you’ve been desiring and intending? Whether that is receiving love, money, happiness, clients, fulfilment, creativity … Do you feel like your capacity is meant to be MORE than what you are currently receiving?

If you’re not receiving at the capacity you desire & intend … I have a question for you to consider today.

How much do you trust yourself?



Did you know that SELF-TRUST is directly related to your capacity to receive?

Watch the video above as I go in-depth into WHY this is the case & HOW we can start to develop our self-trust muscle.

If you are not trusting yourself to handle the CHANGE that might happen in your life, relationships, business, time when you receive your desire – you will energetically block yourself from receiving what you say you want.

If you are not trusting yourself on who you might become as a result of your desire – then you will either self-sabotage your progress or block yourself from your desires.

Can you see where I’m going with this? ;-)


This week I invite you to explore in what way are you not FULLY trusting yourself. Look at how it is manifesting in your life – and most importantly, what you can do to trust yourself more and strengthen the muscle of SELF-TRUST.

Here are some ways to exercise SELF-TRUST:

+ Follow your intuition

+ Know and affirm to yourself that you can adequately respond to what comes your way

+ Always follow through on your words

+ Live in the NOW

+ Stand by your decisions – and allow yourself to grow/evolve as you require


In the comments below: What is ONE way you are not fully trusting yourself right now, and what is ONE thing you can do to start transforming it?

And if you enjoyed this blog post, click ‘LIKE’ and share it with your friends (they’ll thank you for it)! :-)

Much love,
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Your Perfect & Beautiful Life, Right Now

Posted on: July 13, 2016 Category: Self Mastery

Hi everyone!

Today I wanted to share a concept that has made a big difference in my life and my business.

And that is the concept of incorporating your perfect day into your everyday.





This happened to me recently as I got clear on what the most beautiful version of my life looks like to me at this current life stage. I really got reconnected with my specific love for ice skating and being back on the ice. So I signed myself up for 6 months of lessons and the moment I was back on the ice (after about a year of being off the ice – I remembered that this is what it feels like, this is what living my MOST beautiful MOST perfect life right now feels like. Being able to do this (skate, on the ice) right here and now.)

And this is what I believe we are here for – not to wait months or years or decades for the time to live our perfect life – but to live our most perfect version of our life that we can live right now.

So today I invite you to start exploring what your perfect day is – and how can you immediately incorporate these pieces into your life?

How can you incorporate a perfect day everyday … a perfect weekend into every weekend.

And a big piece here too is identifying what is the most beautiful and perfect version of your life AT this current life stage – not the ULTIMATE big vision, and not the one that you’ve outgrown – but the one available to you right here right now.

And that’s how I started.

A blank sheet of paper.
Writing what it would look like …
And within a week stepping into living even more of that life.

THIS is such an important piece – so make sure you take action and do the homework here.

AND I’d love to hear from you – what it ONE thing you can start incorporating into your day, your week, your life, that is a reflection of your most beautiful life right now?

Share it with me in the comments below, and sign up for the mailing list on the right by entering your name + email address to receive a free gift from me and exclusive content I don’t share anywhere else.

Till next time!

Much love,
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PS: Find out how coaching can support you in creating and living your most beautiful life + business, right now. Click here to find out more about coaching with me and sign up for a complimentary discovery call to see if coaching is the right next step for you!

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