My Decision-Making Process

Posted on: March 15, 2017 Category: Self Mastery

Many entrepreneurs stay stuck because they get paralysed when it comes to making decisions, and the 'No stay' always feels safer than 'Yes leap'.

There IS a way to get past this paralysis... First, we must understand that paralysis happens when we choose to focus on what making a decision/investment is going to cost us (what we are losing out on by making the decision)...

I invite you to shift your focus so you can have a birds-eye view of the entire landscape!

A Self-Reflective Prompt to Help You Make Powerful Decisions

Personally, every single time I make a DECISION around investing - I take myself through the following process. It looks like this :

"What is it costing me to NOT make this investment?"
What is it costing you not feeling easeful, aligned & supported around your business goals and actions on a daily basis?

"What do I have to gain from making this investment/leap?"
What do you have to gain when you join Easeful?

Instead of focusing on what you have to lose, tune into what you have to GAIN.

When we have the entire picture, then we are able to make empowered and informed decisions that propel our business forward in a powerful way!

What You'll Receive in Easeful:

  • Easeful Core Workbook that helps you set and align to your business and income goals (and vision) that are truly authentic, joyful and meant for you
  • 30 Day Magic Money Templates to help you focus every day, week and month in your business — this is where the magic is! (Think: Being able to identify income generating actions that propel you closer to your vision every. single. day. Quantum leaps are totally possible for you.)
  • Monthly goal setting calls, plus business & mindset trainings where we will cover how to enrol clients you love, be a powerful business owner or coach/healer that changes the world with your work, sell authentically and with ease, plus more
  • I'll personally be in the group to answer your questions and support you in the journey of building and aligning to a thriving business and brand that you LOVE
  • A wonderful, supportive Easeful community filled with female entrepreneurs who are 100% committed to their journey and a place you can be seen, heard, celebrated & seek support
  • Lifetime access to Easeful (you'll get new course updates, membership site upgrades, and lock in at this current most affordable price even if the pricing goes up or pricing structure changes in the future)

Click here to register for Easeful at the VERY special rate!

See you on the 'inside'!

Much love,

PS : When it comes to making decisions around saying 'YES' to transformation... There will always be an element of intuitive knowing + research + finally making the leap in faith. If you know there's more for you to gain than there is to 'lose' when it comes to investing in Easeful, then what are you waiting for? :-)

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The Masculine vs. Feminine Way of Practicing Wealth Consciousness

Posted on: March 8, 2017 Category: Business & Entrepreneurship

The Masculine vs. Feminine Way of Practicing Wealth Consciousness

As a business owner, learning how to develop your wealth consciousness can be the most empowering and game-changing thing you do for your business.

When we are connected to our wealth consciousness, we aren’t easily swayed by the external results and circumstances.

When challenges and problems arise, we approach them with a solution-oriented and resourceful mindset.

We know that those experiences and things we desire — they’re already ours.

Our current reality is ‘old news’ — because we are paving the way for the very next moments to bring us exactly what we desire.

In essence, being wealth conscious is being fully awake and engaged with the creation of your life in this present moment.

Creation mode: On.

On the other hand: When we aren’t tapped into our wealth consciousness, we easily feel discouraged, overwhelmed, frustrated with the lack of external results.

It’s almost like we are short-sighted, or suddenly blinded by what is currently in front of us.

If our current reality is amazing – we feel amazing.

If our current reality isn’t showing us what we desire – we feel down and crappy.

We might even feel like a failure, or project the worst case scenario, or let our negative self-talk tell us nothing is working and quitting seems like a good option! 

We ‘forget’ that WE get to change this reality – that 100% of what happens next is in our power.

We are in constant reaction mode to what happens around us!

In essence, our wealth consciousness practice is our practice that keeps us connected with our deep knowing that we create our own reality.

That this is a kind Universe – and everything that happens is always for us. (Not to us!)

That anything is possible when we put our focused intention and action to it.

So – which way do you desire to live in your business and life? ;)

Now, let’s talk more about how to cultivate and deepen and practice wealth consciousness!

Your wealth consciousness practice might include things like:

  • Read Think & Grow Rich/Science of Getting Rich/(insert reading material here) 30 minutes once or twice a day
  • Do your affirmations every morning
  • Keep your energy clean through clean-eating, coaching sessions, healing, physical activity etc.
  • Journalling
  • Meditation

Where I see entrepreneurs tripping up — or finding this whole practice simply unsustainable — is the way they are ‘doing’ wealth consciousness.

When we approach our wealth consciousness practice from a masculine place, we come from a ‘gotta get sh*t done’ mode.

We sit ourselves down for 60 minutes in the morning, already feeling like we just have to get this practice out of the way so that we can step into our business.

We push ourselves to do as much as we can — because, the more we can fit in the better!

We might even beat ourselves up a little if the practice on a particular day feels less groundbreaking than the other…

We do it because … our coach or mentor said so/we know it opens us up to prosperity/we feel like we need a top up in the wealth consciousness area.

Day after day, it becomes a mechanical process, and before we know it — we start to feel resistant towards our practice.

We have wealth consciousness practice fatigue!

We then stop the practice (or ‘take a break’ because our body just isn’t up for sustaining it), and then we experience a dip in our wealth consciousness – which might look like emotional roller-coasters or panic and fear when it comes to our money and business goals. 

It is not what we do, but HOW we do – that changes everything.

As female entrepreneurs who are committed to wealth consciousness being a sustainable, enjoyable and pleasurable practice (that we look forward to)…

Let’s approach it in a more embodied, feminine way.

Approaching wealth consciousness as a spiritual practice — one that stems from deep self-love, one that feels nurturing and nourishing to us.

Practicing wealth consciousness with flexibility and space — not a rigid thing we do or have to get done or even having an attachment to how should feel/look.

We practice wealth consciousness because we know it is who you are.

There’s no dread in there — simply a commitment to show up and practice.

As a result, our body and soul looks forward to this practice each day.

See how the second way is all about integration and sustainability?

The result of deep integration and sustainability is consistency.

Consistently practicing in a way that works for you.

Consistently seeing results in your business.

Consistently feeling empowered in every moment.

How is your wealth consciousness ‘bank account’ balance?

One of the analogies I’ve learnt is wealth consciousness is like a bank account. The more we focus on growing it, the more we deposit in this account. We are in a positive balance – as we realise that we are empowered creators and life is amazing!

Where we can slip up is when we forget or feel to resistant to keep this practice up. We stop making regular deposits while the balance goes down as we continue to draw on it daily.

I love this analogy because sometimes when things are going great – we stop keeping up the practices and habits that actually got us here in the first place!!

This commonly happens when the way we are approaching those practices are from a masculine, pushing way vs. feminine, sustainable way. 

In business, having a solid wealth consciousness foundation means you truly know that:

– When a prospect says ‘No’ or ‘Not yet’ – there’s a deep sense of peace and calm, as you know that there are many more prospects out there who are ready to say ‘Yes, I’m ready now!’

– You’re able to say No to non-ideal clients, because you know there is an over-abundance of ideal clients out there for you.

– You’re able to shift out of victim and self-judgement/criticism, because you know you’ve got so much support on your side. (The game is already rigged for you to win before you even started! ;)

– You’re able to raise your rates to reflect where you’re at easily and consistently.

– You’re able to start where you’re at without comparing — or getting stuck in analysis paralysis.

– You take inspired action daily no matter what is happening around you. So the better it gets, the better it gets.

– And so much more…

These are a preview to some of the principles that we cover in detail in my new course, Easeful.

Easeful is about changing the way we ‘do’ our business – whether that is business goals, sales calls, client enrolments, actions or habits.

It’s about truly running your business in a way that supports you … while drawing on everything I know that truly works after building a successful international coaching business, then burning out, then finding a new way that is sustainable to run a thriving business that is 100% authentic and aligned (and of course, one that I love).

We’ll be setting and achieving goals, getting things done, up-levelling and living your vision — all in an easeful way so you don’t experience roller coasters, fatigue or burnout. Which actually allows you to always feel confident in your goals next month, the following, and so on!

Find out more about Easeful here:

Much love,

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Are your business goals driven by Ego or Desire?

Posted on: March 3, 2017 Category: Business & Entrepreneurship

Are your business goals driven by ego or desire?

Ever feel disconnected or unaligned with some of your business goals?

Have you considered whether your goals stem from a place of ego vs. Spirit and desire?

Everyone I’ve ever met in my coaching practice desires to do good work that positively influences the world.

However, unconsciously, sometimes our goals are driven by our ego.

Let’s dive into how to discern between ego-driven goals and desire-led goals!

Ego-driven goals usually …

  • Focused on the external without DEPTH
  • What you think you *should* be aiming for
  • The next ‘logical’ step for you and where you are in your business (even if you’re not genuinely excited or connected to it)
  • Blindly fuelled by what other people have created (and thinking therefore you should create it too)
  • Stemming from comparing energy
  • Involves disempowerment – placing your power outside yourself
  • Focused on the outcome to give you a sense of pride, accomplishment, worth, companionship or something else
  • Changes constantly through time, trends, seasons, and other outside circumstances.
  • Involves a lot of pushing energy that may lead to fatigue and burn out

The similarity in ego-driven goals is that we place our power outside of ourselves – whether in a false identity or expectation we’ve created in our minds or giving our power away to others.

Desire-led goals are usually …

  • What you feel deeply you are meant for/meant to experience (even if it’s HUGE or ‘silly’)
  • Inspired and soul-driven
  • Feel easeful and the natural next step for you
  • Involving a lot more flow
  • Deeply personal and individual – your desire driven goals will look completely different to someone else’s desire driven goals!
  • Internally led – these goals tend to call out to LEAD us towards them (even if we may deny the calling for awhile it doesn’t go away! ;)
  • Persistent – these goals tend to stick and stay there even if we try to talk ourselves out of it, convince ourselves we don’t need it etc.
  • Not always about the form/what it looks like – and more about the experience of who you will be when you are able to create the goal

What can we do?

The most powerful thing you can do as a business owner is get back in your own power when it comes to your business goals and practicing discernment when it comes to your goal setting practice.

A Business Driven by Desire & Spirit-led Goals

When I first started out, I remember this HUGE desire to start coaching clients on a 1:1 basis (in a high end package and large container).

I shared it with my coach at the time – who shared it was better for me to focus on other projects like smaller courses and products – as high-end private clients tend to come after you’ve been in business or out in this online world for awhile!

I was also 19 then – and didn’t have much ‘life experience’ to coach on…

But that nagging desire was that and wouldn’t go away!

So I decided to do it my own way and opened up my calendar for 2 private coaching clients at $3,500 packages.

Within a week of declaring this desire to serve 2 clients …

I booked one beautiful client who I absolutely adored working with.
The next signed up to work with me within the next 30 days.
I was ecstatic that I finally was doing what I knew I was meant for – I absolutely loved what I had created in my business.

On the other hand, I also recall chasing those external things I thought I wanted.

I kept travelling even though I knew I desired to start nesting at home.
I over-invested in programs and courses even though I knew it was time to look for different (more aligned) mentor.
I said ‘Yes’ when I knew it was time for me to lovingly say ‘No’.

This led to burning out 2 years ago, finding myself in an externally successful business that didn’t feel aligned internally.

I questioned what I had created …

It took lots of deep dives, journalling sessions and inquiry – and today I’m so happy to share that this experience has taught me how to discern beautifully between goals that nourish me and those that don’t.

When we choose desire driven goals – it doesn’t mean life is a piece of cake and a walk in the park. There’s still challenges that we may face, however when we are led by Desire there is also a lot more ease and grace in our formula.

Let’s Set Business Goals that Deeply NOURISH You

I’m holding a FREE workshop on Money & Income Goal Setting and I’d love for you to join me.

We’ll be going through each of your goals and ensuring they truly align with what you truly desire – and you’ll walk away with the important skill of discernment.

We’ll also be setting goals together that are based in Spirit and Desire (vs. ego), so that your business goals feel authentic, inspired, and easeful!

I’ll also share a process on how you can let go of those ego-driven goals (that aren’t grounded in reality, gets you stuck in spinning and so on) so that you can step back into 100% of your own power when it comes to you and your business!

When we are in this space we easily create and experience our goals – whether it’s related to our offerings, clients, sales, income or the decisions we choose to make with our time, money and other resources.

You’ll walk away knowing exactly how to set goals that you love, create a business that aligns with you, and make future decisions from a place of ease and power. :-)

See you there!

Much love,

PS: Here’s the link to join the Money & Income Goal Setting Workshop. If you’re ready to create business goals you love (and experience them!), you’ll want to be there… ;)

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Manifesting My Dream Home

Posted on: February 22, 2017 Category: Lifestyle/ Self Mastery

Manifesting my dream home

At the end of 2016, my man and I sat down for our annual visioning session. (Me with a mega-watt smile, him more reluctantly. Hehe.)

What it involves: We write, create, and share our individual visions for the year + beyond – as well as co-create our shared/couple’s vision together. (Game changing – highly recommend regular visioning sessions with your partner.)

During this process on that fine December afternoon, the energy of our dream home emerged beautifully.

Naturally, organically, and oh-so distinctively.

Little did we know that, within 2 weeks, she would be ours.

Our gorgeous dream home with ocean views… (and of course, dogs allowed)!;)

A little story of how it all came to be…

I always loved being by the sea.

For some reason, the seaside always feels like home.

(Growing up in the concrete jungle of KL, I never really understood why. To be honest, I still don’t. I’ve learnt to just embrace it!)

My love for the ocean grew exponentially when I moved to Australia almost 10 years ago.

If you’ve seen Australian beaches, I think you would understand why!

They’re something out of this world:

The fine white sand.
The most delicious sun.
The most refreshing, crystal clear turquoise waters.

Living by the beach became a vision of mine.

Creating and living my vision is something that I have a huge thing for. It’s a bit of an obsession! :P  It’s something I coach my clients through every single day, and when vision turns to reality … it’s really magical!

There’s a good story behind every good manifestation – and I’ll share the story of exactly how we manifested our dream home in an upcoming post (keep an eye out)!

Today, I’m here to share the very simple formula we used to make our dreams a reality.

Fortune favours the clear-minded.

During our visioning sesh, we got super clear on what we wanted: brand new, with balcony, ocean views, pets allowed, lots of natural light, dedicated study room, lots of space, fits our price range etc. I even had marble bench tops in the list! (I thought it was a big of a fantasy – but guess what, marble bench tops was exactly what the Universe delivered too!)

Create a vision with soul (and stick to it).

While we had a few options show up in the interim they didn’t fit the vision (see step 1). We chose to stick to our list – and we ultimately got exactly what we desired! Oh, goals with soul are much more easeful! Ahhh.

Take action.

We drove to different beaches in Sydney, laid on the sands of Bondi/Manly/every beach you could think of to try on for size, lived like a local for the day… We scheduled viewings, reached out to different agents, and so on! Actions allows you to meet the Universe half way!

Follow through with trust.

When we found the apartment that ticked all our boxes, we followed through. We made the decision to say ‘yes!’ (quickly) and went through with it (even if there were all kinds of nerves and butterflies and OMG moments)! There’s a huge element of trust that we made the right decision!

Whatever your dream is… if you can dream it you can create a version of it in your life.

Hold your vision close to you, and know that if it’s a goal/dream/vision with soul – it is inevitable that you will receive it.

This year truly brings with it a bountiful energy of exciting, new possibilities. Along with it, a huge element of trusting.

Trusting in your power.
You are a powerful Creator.

Trusting in the speed at which Life is flowing right now.
You are exactly where you need to be right now.

Trusting in yourself.
You are making the right decisions.

Jia Ni x

Did you miss last week’s post? Read it here: How to Stop Procrastinating in Your Business

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